John Henry Becker Jr.

1957 - 1999
LocationMastic Beach, Ny
Age41 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth03/12/1957
Date of Death28/05/1999
Visitors656 since 28/09/2008
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My brother, Johhny, What can I say? He was a great person. He loved to have a good time and play
jokes on all of us. He loved the Beatles and collected lots of music. When he sang, he sounded just
like Barry Gibb. He was my hero, and I miss him terribly. My brother was 41 when he passed, way to
young to go. He left behind him a son, Derek Jon,and three brothers and two sisters, and a mom. He
has many neices and nephews that never got a chance to now him.


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hiya sh**head...lol...mis you...tara and the family were just up here in ny...was so good to see them...visit went by too quick...eric just turned 28 ya know..and your goober will be 18 next week...omg where has the time gone johnny...i love you my brother so very very much and still have such a hard time not seeing you after all these yrs...Gary and i went to strawberry fields when he was here...i wanted him to see your tree with me...it is a beautiful tree...xoxoxo

Donna Becker (Sister) September 24, 2009

Hi Johnny. I'm in NY with Mike & the kids for the first time in 7 years! We're having a great time visiting with the family!! Emptied our storage unit finally. Found your picture album that I got when you passed. Oh, and the tape that you made years ago too! I thought I lost it... it is so important to me! Derek went back to Florida a couple of weeks ago. I really wished he ouldn't have gone back there, but it wasn't my choice. All I can do is hope he makes the right choices for himself. Anyway, I miss you everyday & love you so so much! XOXO

Tara Matheny (Sister) September 11, 2009

Hi Johnny...I miss you so much..I know i havent been on in a while, but you know not a day goes by that you are not in my head. Im doing pretty good. Been spending time with Gary! Yeah he is back. Its great bro. I am really starting to feel like myself again.
Your goober has graduated as you know, he is with Tara right now. Johnny I wish you could hold my grandaughter, she is so precious.Hard to believe im a grandma huh? you would be so proud of my boys. Give daddy a hug for me. I love you big bro.

Donna Becker (Sister) August 10, 2009

A Silent Tear

Just close your eyes and you will see
All the memories that you have of me
Just sit and relax and you will find
I'm really still there inside your mind

Don’t cry for me now I'm gone
For I am in the land of song
There is no pain, there is no fear
So dry away that silent tear

Don’t think of me in the dark and cold
For here I am, Ill never grow old
I'm in that place that’s filled with love

Known to you all,as heaven up above god bless you.
love theresa xxx

Theresa Waters May 28, 2009

I know that you and daddy were watching over my girls this morning...I just don't know what they were thinking. I really hope that they learn from this.
I love you Johnny! XOXO

Tara Matheny (Sister) January 19, 2009

Hey big brother, sorry i havent been to visit lately. i just spent 3 weeks in texas, it was good, you know?
derek is a good boy, you would be proud of him. i go back to sloan in january, hope all goes well. i love you johnny, so much, hey, jimmy stopped here again last nite, sometimes its good to see him, reminds me of the old days when you and him were around.
MERRY CHRISTMAS, my brother, wish you were here in body, not just spirit.

Donna Becker (Sister) December 25, 2008

Happy Birthday

I know I'm a day early, but Happy Birthday Johnny!
I love you and miss you so much
xoxo

Tara Matheny (Sister) December 2, 2008

Hey Dad. I just wanted to say Hi and let you know how much I miss you. Its been a little over 9 years, and to be honest with you I havent competely gotten over the fact that you are no longer here with me. I know youve been watchin over me and all that good stuff. I know you have seen a bunch of the stuff that went on with Mom and Tony. Im here now livin in Texas with Aunt Tara and Uncle Todd. Ive gotten to see Uncle Vinny, Uncle Brian, Aunt Donna, And Grandma, Finally after 9 years. They all tell me how much I look and act like you lol, you have no idea how happy things like that make me. I want you to know how much I love you. I know I was only 12 when you passed and didnt really get to know you the way most kids know their fathers. But being around the family, I feel like I know everything about you. I wish we would have had more time together. I hope you know that I tried to be by your bedside as much as I was allowed, and that I was right there when you took your last breath. I didnt want to leave your side, even just for a moment because I feared that I wouldnt be there in your final seconds. I love you Dad and I always will. I hope I make you proud of me.

Derek Becker (Son) November 26, 2008

A candle to remember,
May it burn ever so bright
As we look to the heavens
On this very night.
Beyond the stars,
Your dear one soars
Embraced by there Savior
On heaven's shores.
As the angels protect them
And sing there sweet name
We honor there life
With the glow of this flame.
So we light this candle
For our loved ones today
As a symbol of our love
And there eternal life.

with all our love
mell,paul family.

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Mell Campbell November 18, 2008

HiJohnny-sorry i haven't been here to see you lately. I have Psyco here, he is you to a tee! you would understand, everyone seems to think I'm a little wacky when i say he is you, except for tara and aunt jackie, they understand.
I have been doing a lot of thinking since my appt last week @ sloan. I know you know and i don't have to tell you what is going on. I'm scarred Johnny, I wish you could really be here with me right now, not just in my mind, you know? Mommy has been so great, but I need you and daddy.
I love you so much...

Donna Becker (Sister) November 16, 2008
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